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Chris Altrock is an author, spiritual director and preacher, serving as the Senior Minister at the Stamford Church of Christ. He and his wife Kendra are parents to Jordan and Jacob.

Refresh: Connecting with Christ Through Detachment

The Three Most Important Relationships

Imagine that you are sitting in a chapel and a memorial service has just started.[i] There are faces in the crowd you recognize.  Coworkers.  Former classmates.  Friends.  Family members.  Neighbors.  A minister strides to the podium and reads the eulogy.  Suddenly you realize this isn’t just any funeral—it’s your funeral.  The minister indicates that several will be sharing thoughts about you this morning: a family member, a close friend, a coworker, and someone you worshipped with.  What would you want them to say about you?  What would you have hoped to accomplish in life?  It’s likely that your hopes, regrets, or thoughts will revolve around these three areas: the quality of your relationship with others, the depth and authenticity of your relationship with God, and a perspective on material things which enabled you to be generous toward others.

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Right Turn: Turning Lives Around Through Closeness

A movie called “The Book of Eli” is a parable illustrating the sometimes chaotic power of Scripture.  The story takes place in the near future of America, after a nuclear apocalypse leaves the country a desolate wasteland.  Through that wasteland travels a loner named Eli.  Eli believes God has sent him to bring one of the few remaining copies of the Bible to the west coast.  As he travels, Eli wanders into a ramshackle town ruled by a villainous man named Carnegie.  Most in the town no longer know how to read.  None in the town have ever read the Bible—except Eli and Carnegie.  Both believe in the power of Scripture.  And as they confront one another on the dusty streets of this western town, their talk of Scripture turns the town upside down: Carnegie: Is that thing loaded? I don’t think it’s loaded. Eli: Only one way to find out. Carnegie: Look, I need that book. I mean…I want the book.  And you.  But if you make me choose, I’ll kill ya—I’ll take the book. Eli: Why? Why do you want it? Carnegie: I grew up with it. I know its power. And if you read it, then so do you. That’s why they burned them all after the war.  Hey, just stayin’ alive is an act of faith; building this town is an even bigger act of faith, but they don’t understand that.  None of them.  And I don’t have the right words to help them, but the book does.  I admit…I’ve had to do things…many, many things I hate to build this, I confess that…but if we have that book, I wouldn’t have to.  Now imagine…imagine how different, how righteous this little world could be if we had the right words for our faith.  Well, people would truly understand why they’re here and what they’re doing and wouldn’t need any of the uglier motivations.  It’s not right to keep that book hidden away; it’s meant to be shared with others; it’s meant to be spread. Isn’t that what you want? Eli: With all my heart and soul.  I always believed that I’d find a place where this book belonged, where it was needed…but I haven’t found it yet. Carnegie: I love this guy.  I love this guy! Shoot him…please.” Guns flare.  People scream.  But as the dust settles, Eli walks out of town.  He has other places to go.  He’s got a mission to accomplish.

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When God Says No: The Unanswered Prayers of Jesus

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When God Says No

An uncle recently wrote to me.  His young niece had been killed in a car accident.  She was a devout young woman raised by godly parents.  In fact, hours before her death, the niece and her mother had prayed together for traveling mercies.  Then she was gone.  The uncle wrote to me, “We pray for our children and their safety.  And then something like this happens.  Why?”  The uncle was respectful.  He was sensitive.  But clearly this was a difficult issue.  Why did God say “No” to prayers for safety, especially for this God-loving niece?

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